There can be pushback when it comes to talking about white privilege. White folks seem to get agitated when it’s suggested that we, as a people, enjoy a wide array of advantages based solely on our skin color. This knee-jerk denial seems rooted in the message we’ve had drilled into us since birth – our hard work got us to where we are today, not our lack of melanin – so being told we’re handed something is offensive. Getting past the knee-jerk reaction is the first step.
Today I’ll guide part of the “Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack” activity¹. This is a good way to focus on everyday benefits white skin brings to the table. So grab a pen and paper. Now, as you read through these items, mark each one that applies to you.
- If I should need to move, I can be pretty sure of renting or purchasing housing in an area which I can afford and in which I would want to live.
- I can be pretty sure that my neighbors in such a location will be neutral or pleasant to me.
- I can go shopping alone most of the time, pretty well assured that I will not be followed or harassed.
- When I am told about our national heritage or about “civilization,” I am shown that people of my color made it what it is.
- I can go into a music shop and count on finding the music of my race represented, into a supermarket and find the staple foods that fit with my cultural traditions, into a hairdresser’s shop and find someone who can cut my hair.
- Whether I use checks, credit cards or cash, I can count on my skin color not to work against the appearance of financial reliability.
- I can arrange to protect my children most of the time from people who might not like them.
- I can swear, or dress in second-hand clothes, or not answer letters, without having people attribute these choices to the bad morals, the poverty, or the illiteracy of my race.
- I can do well in a challenging situation without being called a credit to my race.
- I am never asked to speak for all the people of my racial group.
- I can be pretty sure that if I ask to talk to “the person in charge,” I will be facing a person of my race.
- If a traffic cop pulls me over or if the IRS audits my tax return, I can be sure I haven’t been singled out because of my race.
- I can easily buy posters, postcards, picture books, greeting cards, dolls, toys, and children’s magazines featuring people of my race.
- I can take a job with an affirmative action employer without having co-workers on the job suspect that I got it because of race.
- I can choose public accommodations without fearing that people of my race cannot get in or will be mistreated in the places I have chosen.
- I can be sure that if I need legal or medical help, my race will not work against me.
- I can choose blemish cover or bandages in “flesh” color and have them more less match my skin.
How many did you check? The only one I didn’t check was #7 – all the rest were a litany of “well, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, that one, too.”
The Knapsack exercise isn’t about shame or guilt. It’s about seeing how many ways our skin color affects our lives. It’s about starting to understand the different realities Americans face each day.
¹ “White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack” first appeared in Peace and Freedom Magazine, July/August, 1989, pp. 10-12, a publication of the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom, Philadelphia, PA.
If we cannot acknowledge our privilege, we are certainly a big part of the problem. This is a great list which sadly gets longer every year.
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So very true. There are 26 items on the original list and that was in 1989! I have a hard time making sense of how many more there are now. And even how many they left off in the first place.
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Great food for thought! We are so good as a society in closing our eyes and accepting an alternate reality, believing what’s convenient for us to believe, denying our prejudices. It makes me sad.
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I think we’re used to accepting what society’s always told us is “right” and “normal”. It’s counterintuitive to fight the norm unless you’re not *considered* the norm. I’m still learning the ways I fall into that trap.
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Very thought-provoking. #17 I had never thought of until I needed to buy bandaids – after the kids flew the nest, bandaids weren’t something we needed around much. So in the leftover box, they had lost their ‘hold’ factor, and I needed new ones. I was impressed that there were shades to choose from. The ‘invisible’ ones failed …you can’t have a white cotton pad in the middle of an invisible bandaid, no matter what color skin you have, the damn thing shows up. Sorry, if I digress, your points are important and worthy of discussing with those who can do it justice, I’m just not eloquent at adding to the big picture discussion about this topic.
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No, your point is well taken. I haven’t had to shop for them in a while but someone posted on twitter a few months back about Tru-Colour and how much it meant to have a bandaid to match THEM. It seems minor but I imagine, when the entire world seems to revolve around white skin, finally seeing your skin tone available is a relief. 💛
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A great move towards understanding the privilege of skin color.
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And in small, everyday things. It made it easier for me to see.
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True. We do need to sit down and think. All of us.
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such good points, all. most people don’t take the time, or choose, to consider this –
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I surely didn’t before someone introduced this activity to me. It’s impossible not to see the overwhelming bias.
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Absolutely nails this. Unfortunately some people will never get their head round this. They live in a different world and worship a different time.
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And for some it’s like even if they hear & *technically* understand what this is saying they brush it off like making a mountain out of a molehill. It’s discouraging.
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