“In my day job at a major technology company, I mentor a lot of young adults. Most of them are college-aged interns and recent graduates.
You’ll be shocked—shocked!—to learn that my mentoring sessions are popular because of their “no bullshit” vibe. If we’re getting coffee for thirty minutes, we’ll spend two of them introducing ourselves and making pleasant chit-chat about the weather. That leaves twenty-eight minutes for me to break the speed of sound delivering my very best general adulting advice.
I live for the moment when these young folks realize I’m here to talk straight to them. They go from having no questions (because they’re terrified of looking unprepared) to having dozens.
One question I get asked a lot is, “Should I go to grad school?”
I always say the same thing, without any hesitation.
“No.”
The last young person I was mentoring specifically asked if he should go on to grad school to get his master’s degree in Marketing Operations. Which did get me to change my stance a little bit.
“Fuck no.”
22-Year-Olds Don’t Belong in Grad School: Bitches Get Riches
“Time for another exciting edition of Mz. Mannerz!
Hi.
Who would have thought such a little word could inspire so much rage? I mean, I would have thought that, but I fly into rage over someone misquoting lines from Caddyshack, so I’m a bad gauge of what’s rage-worthy. You should probably talk to someone who doesn’t have a vein semi-permanently bulging out of their forehead if you want calm and well-thought out commentary on the matter.
I mean, goddamn it. If you’re not gonna get the quote from the movie right, then don’t quote it. You can’t just replace Bill Murray’s line “Big hitter, the Lama” with “The Lama is a big hitter” because you will have ruined the line. RUINED IT.”
Mz. Mannerz: Hi Seems To Be The Hardest Word: RomComDojo
“There’s a vacation photo of me, all grainy and saturated like the best ’80s snapshots. My messy red ’fro is damp, my smiling face is half in shadow, my feet are dangling in glistening water that spreads to the edges of the frame, and my skinny 8-year-old ass is bending the middle of a blowup raft with a huge Confederate flag on it. This picture sums up my youth: a mixed-race black kid alone in the middle of a lake, cluelessly floating on the whitest thing possible.”
Robert E. Lee’s Horse’s Ass Made Me Black: Chris L. Terry, America. In Black. on The Root
“The United States government has no plans to vaccinate migrant families against the flu ahead of this year’s flu season. Doctors are urging efforts to fight the flu infection among those being held in the detention camps, particularly children — three of whom have died, in part, from symptoms of the flu in the past year.”
U.S. Government Refuses Migrant Families Flu Shots In Detention Camps: Cassandra Stone, Scary Mommy
“If you haven’t read my initial post about my college journey, I suggest you start there before continuing on. In short summary, I am the first to attend college in my family and my transition didn’t go well. There were a lot of mistakes made and I could have used some guidance from another black adoptee who had gone through this process. Unfortunately, we didn’t have the means of connecting with people like y’all do now, so I went in blind. Lucky for you all, I’m here to be your fairy godmother and share with you some of the things I had questions about and I found out the hard way, you should probably keep in mind while choosing a school.”
When I was a college senior majoring in psychology, seems like all I heard from professors was, “you can’t get a job in psychology without a masters degree.” In my senior year, I volunteered at the crisis line and they hired me, which led to a job as an addictions counselor which I did for 30 years. I still don’t regret not going to grad school.
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Sometimes I wonder if kids get the best advice from academia. So glad you did what was right for you!
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I give the same advice to my students, wait a while before you consider grad school. Glad to see someone agrees with that advice!
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I love that site — they give really great life advice straight up (and usually have me laughing along the way). This was a great post!
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agreed – entertaining and informative, the perfect combo!
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wait! where’s your wand if you’re a fairy godmother???
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I keep it in my pantry. It’s made of pretzel rods, Twizzlers, and Rolos.
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“You can always go back” This is great advice found in the first article. I went back to get a Masters Degree and have never regretted it. I did this AFTER I’d been in the work world for a while and had a more, shall we say, realistic, non-scholarly perspective on how things in the real world worked. Too much book learning all at one will fry your brain, and bankrupt your finances.
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I was definitely an exception. My school offered a 5 yr bachelors of whatever/masters of teaching program (kind of like double majoring I guess?) & at the time I thought about how hard it would be to get back to school once I was teaching. Plus the masters in that field gave me an edge in hiring since (sadly) it didn’t really make me cost prohibitive to employers. I do think I would have gotten more out of it after I taught a few years, though.
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That’s a wonderful program. I’ve not heard of that before but so practical. Smart choice to go with what was offered.
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It was for me, but I also like that they offered lots of choices. Some students were working toward a 4 yr bachelors degree in a particular area of education, others worked on a masters of teaching or education. Some were 5 yr combined programs like me, others were adults who had come back for their masters. It made for a good mix.
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Just staggering. Every week you find bits of life that just staggering in a so called modern society.
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Sometimes I feel things are slipping sideways.
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Wow!
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This was a wide range but all good reads.
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