If confronted with a violent crime against a single individual in progress (severe beating, rape, assault) do you try to do something about it (phone authorities or confront the criminal, stop the crime) or do you figure it’s none of your business and walk or drive on by? Worse (to me), would you record the crime for social media use without doing anything else?
Okay, Melanie, I’ve gotta know – did anyone choose the “none of my business” or “post for social media cred” options? I just…can’t. I simply cannot imagine anybody chiming in with nope, nothing to see here, keep it moving.
The latest elementary lesson I saw on it was called Be An Upstander, Not A Bystander, and I’d say that pretty well sums up my beliefs on the matter. We belong to each other.
If someone asked to be your apprentice and learn all that you know, what would you teach them?
First the silly: Get your dog snuggles every day. If you can’t snuggle a dog then at least troll cute puppy videos on twitter. Kitty videos work, too. Invest in comfy socks and a quality mattress. There’s no shame in hiding ice cream from the kids. Find music you love and blast it while you’re in the shower. Learn to make at least one superior pasta dish because the power of delectable carbs is immeasurable.
Now the serious: Stop fighting reality – it only brings pain, suffering, frustration, and anger. Eliminate the word “should” from your vocabulary. Get a little sun on your face every day. Find your people and stop worrying about what anyone else thinks. Eat well, exercise regularly, and treat yourself to a hot fudge sundae now and again.
First think of a product. Now, what would be the absolute worst brand name for one of those products?
Positively-Charged, De-Stinkifying, Chemical Distributors For Tumble Dry.
What ridiculous and untrue, yet slightly plausible, theories can you come up with for the cause of common ailments like headaches or cavities?
The smell of sickly sweet perfumes and room sprays hang thick in the air, clogging up sinus cavities, seeping into mouths and burrowing into molars, infecting everything they touch with 150% glucose and a dose of sugar rot.
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I like your theory – I think it has legs.
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Or at the very least, toes to dip in the waters. 😉
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Thanks Laura for Sharing Your World! 🙂 Actually, in response to your first comment in your post, YES. Someone reported on a story (verified through a news source) where a young man (16 year old) was stabbed to death by another, older boy he was fighting with. Classmates stood around filming the event and tweeting and all that, but NOBODY called an ambulance, the police nor did a damned thing to help the first boy as he bled out. That’s why I included the question. I was horrified to my core that people (young people, but really??) could and would do such a heinous thing. That’s beyond indifferent, that’s freakin’ criminal (IMHO). Wet dog smell? Oh my gosh! Depending, it can be the worst smell in the world….at such times I get out the ‘old’ towels, dry the dog, if it’s warm enough, doggie gets a bath (probably adding to the funk) and the Febreze fabric refresher spray is applied liberally to any cushions or linens the stinky dog got around.
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I caught that news story, too, and it was HORRIFIC. I cannot imagine what sort of mob mentality would make standing around watching a human being get attacked and die seem…acceptable? I don’t even know what word belongs there. I was speaking more to the fact that I don’t think anybody would *answer* yes to #1. How they’d actually behave when push comes to shove is another matter entirely.
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Amen to eliminating “should” from your vocabulary. Replace it with “will” or “shall” and just see how much farther you’ll go in life. Just saying…
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True. I also find that I attach a lot of shame statements to “should”. Rephrasing makes me really think about my choices.
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Love each and every answer. I looked at these questions and sighed because my brain went far too serious.
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It’s not just you, Carol. This one took longer than usual because I kept having to reset my brain.
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Great answers, specially to # 1.
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Live these. Maybe not the dog when he’s been out in the rain for 10 minutes.
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Because wet dog smell – yikes. This is true.
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