Do you have a favorite kind of tree?
I love a weeping willow. One of the houses we lived in when I was young had one, and its branches trailed low enough to the ground that I could read a book under there and feel like I was hidden away in a secret world. What a lovely way to spend an afternoon.
What bridges are you happy you burned?
I’ve cut ties with a couple of toxic people. Thank goodness it hasn’t happened much but I’m glad I found the strength to put my well being first.
Would you sacrifice yourself (die) for a stranger?
I’d like to think I would. I also think this is the kind of thing you can never know until it’s happening in real life.
How have your priorities changed since the C-19 virus took over?
The difference between need and want has crystallized. Weekly/bi-weekly grocery shopping for meal prep? Need. Running out for more ice cream on a whim? Sorry, that’s a want, we’ll pick some up on the next trip. On a larger scale I’ve found that what’s truly important to me has come into a laser like focus. It’s refreshing to clear out the noise, y’know?
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I made my mom’s banana bread on Saturday morning and mm mmm, that stuff is delicious. Now I don’t know how much experience you have with homemade breads but they’ll typically take around two hours or more to make and if I’m gonna invest that sort of time into baking then there’d better be a near-explosive reaction to the final product. Good thing the kids are huge fans of banana bread. Then again, it means we plow through two+ hours of work in two days so that’s kind of a bummer but still, there’s something about hearing man, mom, this bread is SO GOOD that warms a mama’s heart.
That reminds me of the Grey’s Anatomy episode where a patient’s fiancé describes his relationship in terms of breakfast. In a ham and eggs plate the chicken’s invested but the pig’s committed. Funny, but I can’t get that out of my head now. Are you the ham or the eggs?
Sparks from a Combustible Mind hosts Share Your World.
Banana bread reminds me of mom.
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Me too. 🙂
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Me? I’m a firm ham (as anyone would tell you) 😆 Thanks Laura for Sharing Your World and making us all smile. I love the willow tree memory…how beautiful! I had a pine tree that myself and my siblings would hide under (its branches reached the ground) when our biologic mother lost her temper. My memory has worst connotations than yours, but the smell of pine still reminds me of that secret little ‘tree house’ we shared.
I loved and still love the book “The Secret Garden” for much the same reasons you gave for your tree. Such imagery! Banana bread? HOMEMADE? Man! You ARE a super mom #1, aren’t you? I hope they (children, husband) gave you proper adulation this past Sunday. You deserve it!
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That is a hard memory to hold, Melanie. I hope that at least you and your siblings were able to be a comfort to one another. Making the banana bread was a perfect storm of circumstances — two bananas overripe on the counter, our love for all things baking, and me missing my mom. It was totally worth it and a pretty great celebration of mothers. 💛
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It’s interesting to understand his unimportant some things are and how special other things can be. Great answers.
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Thanks, Dan. Things are definitely more straightforward these days.
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Your answers to the priorities question is great. The difference between want and need!
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Thanks, Sadje. Things seem so much clearer now.
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They do.
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i can share my favorite tree, which is a ginkgo tree and so lucky that one was waiting for me right out my front window, when i moved into my condo last summer. i love looking at it every day. i am liking this slower pace of life
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A ginkgo tree! What a fantastic choice. 🙂
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i’ve always been fascinated by their leaves and knew it was a sign i had bought the right place when i saw it )
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We have some wonderful old weeping willows near us. Love sitting under them. Love the way you talk about the priorities. It is about stocking up once and then just making do. The important stuff has become so so clear.
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It really has, hasn’t it. I see so many people realizing this now.
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