My last hair appointment (AKA for the love of all that’s holy please make this gray hair go away appointment) was March 3rd. March third. Which means it’s been five months+ since a professional went anywhere near my head. Now whether that’s a good or bad thing I can’t say, but instead of coloring at home I’ve embraced the #silversisters movement.
That’s right, folks, for better or worse we’re embracing the gray. I’m really enjoying that #silversisters marketing, though, so let’s just say I’m embracing the silver.
Pros:
- No standing for hours (okay, maybe it just seems like hours) in a chemical-smelly bathroom trying to ignore my achy arms while I try not to miss any spots.
- Flip version of that would be gaining that time for doing whatever I’d rather do.
- No agonizing over box color in corona times trying to figure out what won’t look hideous on my head.
- No paying for the honor of covering up my natural hair color.
- Finding peace in accepting myself for who I am.
Cons:
- The kids’ friends have always thought I was younger than I am but there’s no more hiding when these silver strands are standing out. Guess I’ll just have to live with reality.
- No more getting carded at the grocery store. Then again I think I’m okay not having to rifle through my wallet for my license when all I want is some beer and nachos.
- I’m only five months into this thing so the truth is there are days when I’m not all zen and accepting myself for who I am. Sometimes I just think…eh. But it passes.
The pros are definitely outweighing the cons, at least for now. So #silversisters unite!
Linda hosts Stream of Consciousness Saturday. This week’s prompt is “pro/con.” Talk about the pros and cons of anything. Enjoy!
The pros have it! I wonder what percentage of men worry about this. Silver is beautiful!
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I stopped colouring my hair several years ago, so have a kind of grey-streaked dark blonde look that I’ve got so used to I can’t imagine it being any different now 🙂
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I look forward to dye-free being my default. That sounds kind of nice. 🙂
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All pros from where I sit. I last colored my hair in June of 2019 right before a business trip. Once back I decided enough. From then until March 2020 I went into the office with my skunk stripe getting wider. No one was rude to say anything to my face but some looks were priceless. I had a few trims before the stay orders last one being March 11 2020. Now I’m ready to cut off all the dyed ends but I’m staying put to be on the safe side. Cheers to #silversisters.
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Oh man, being a year+ in sounds like a dream. I look genuinely awful with short hair so it’s a waiting game until my dye job grows out – I can only imagine what those looks will be like when I finally reemerge into public gatherings again. 😆
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I think natural always looks better, and if your hair is going gray, you should just let it. Mary got more compliments after she stopped coloring her hair. Do you know Shelley over at QuaintRevival.com? She decided to stop coloring her hair and it looks gorgeous on her.
I come from a family where we go gray early. I think I was in my mid-30’s when I started to go gray. One time I was at a bookstore, and the cashier said “I like your hair. Don’t color it.” Which I had no intention of doing, but it was a nice compliment.
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That is a nice thing to hear! Yeah, I love Shelley’s hair, she looks gorgeous as a #silversister. 🙂 I’ve been taking inspiration from her for a few months now.
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I’ve been silver since retirement although I did go to the salon for some tasteful blue and purple highlights and a decent cut. I am now radically grown out and sporting a scrunchy like it is 1984!
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Ah, the power of a good scrunchie cannot be denied! I’m gonna let all the dye grow out before I do anything but I’ve given some thought to doing fun colors once I’m on the other side of it. 🙂
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Well done, Laura. I haven’t been to the hairdresser for the same period. My hair is not yet grey but it is looking dull and boring. I have decided to go to the hairdresser next month because I just need a change. I’ll wear a mask and use hand sanitiser.
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Ours has reopened over the summer and is using precautions, I just tend toward the overly cautious end. Might cave for my daughter, though — she really needs a protein treatment and I don’t think I can do that at home.
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I love my grey and the freedom. My dyed hair would start turning brassy in a couple of weeks. too much money and hassle!
I understand if you are still in your 50’s; people do assume you are older. But when you ARE older, dyed hair looks fake. You just look like an old lady with brown hair.
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There’s a great deal of freedom in not spending money trying to look young. I look like I look, might as well get on board with that. And you’re right — old people with jet black hair just look weird. 😂
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My wife went natural over a year ago and her hair is now gunmetal gray wit silver streaks. She gets compliments all the time. Best wishes.
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Thanks, John. I guess we’ll see what’s what once this grows out!
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Good idea.
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I’m sure everyone thinks you’re just prematurely graying! You are, aren’t you? Besides, as everyone has already said, natural is good. And so much easier! I’m working on accepting my old-age midsection girth, but haven’t gotten to the gracefully accepting part yet. Because I look pregnant, and heaven help me!
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Oh yeah, the steady weight gain with each decade has been a pain in the butt. Mine is all midsection too and I’m definitely not at the graceful acceptance stage yet. Since I saw my first grays pop out in my twenties I have no frame of reference — when do people usually go gray? ‘Cause I’ve been ignoring it for twenty years now! 😆
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I don’t know what the average age for graying is. I had gray patches in my 40s I think, which is about when my hair started losing its pigment. I was blonde, now I’m no color.
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It’s a great thing to embrace. Natural is beautiful.
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It is indeed.
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I think it’s a good decision. I always say that I wear my gray hair (what’s left of it) like a badge. I wonder if there will be a measurable change to the industry’s bottom line?
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I can only imagine there must be. I still haven’t gone back but when I eventually do it’ll just be for trims and those appointments will be further apart. It makes me wonder if we’ll lose some of the smaller local salons.
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My barber says about 60% of his customers haven’t been back (open since mid-June) including one man who came in, paid, but was was good scared to stay.
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many pros to your decision –
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Thanks, beth. 🙂
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Embrace natural hair! I love this. I look at guys around me and even young men my age are going for the jet black hair dye. On the hand, I love my coffee dark brownish hair color with lighter edges and I wouldn’t use any dye on it. Embrace the change. I always thought grey hair looks cool.
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I started early. I wish in my twenties I’d been secure enough to say “a few gray strands? cool!” but I went the coloring route instead. Time for something new!
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It’s never late to embrace your true self. Way to go!
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So cool! 👍👍👍
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Fingers crossed…
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I wish I had the will power to do it. Just got them dyed a lovely brown. 😛
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