Nobody puts Baby in a corner!
And that was that. Linda posts “in the corner” as a prompt and I’ve got Dirty Dancing front and center in my brain. Some things are too big to get around, too overpowering to ignore, and my teenage memories of this particular movie make branching out in another direction impossible. Might as well go with the flow as they say.
I was working in a movie theater the summer Dirty Dancing was released. We were allowed to sit in on movies during breaks and after work so there’s honestly no telling how many times I’ve seen this one if you were to add up all the fifteen minutes here, fifteen minutes there viewings. Tack on thirty years of “hey, look what’s playing on TNT, let’s watch” showings and we’re talking hundreds and hundreds of Nobody puts Baby in a corner moments.
Somehow it’s never lost its tearjerker effect, though. I know, I’m an easy mark.
I was talking with T-man this weekend about a show I’d heard on NPR about theaters and their response in the pandemic. They’ve been giants in the entertainment industry for so long, exerting enormous influence on movie studios regarding their production and release dates. They’ve been flat out unwilling to consider any kind of streaming access to movies – if studios wanted the theaters to carry their movies then they had to commit to no streaming platform access for seventy-two days. But the pandemic has thrown all of it into a tailspin. Suddenly there’s no guarantee movie theaters will even survive, and ones that do will most likely have to shift their approach to streaming access if they want to make it.
I don’t know how I feel about all this. Generally speaking I think greater access is a good thing. It’s unreasonable for theaters to hold movies hostage, forcing people to show up in their buildings at a certain time on certain days, especially when you consider even before covid some people weren’t able to leave their homes for various reasons. But there’s a tiny part of me that hates to see such a big part of my youth die off.
Linda hosts Stream of Consciousness Saturday. This week’s prompt is “in the corner.” Write about whatever the image or thought of “in the corner” brings to mind. Have fun!
I wish I had seen Dirty Dancing in a movie theater!
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It sure was something!
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I worked at movie theatres in high school and a little of college during the 70s. It was a fun getting to watch so many movies in the chain for free – including drive ins. Maybe drive in movies will come back! You’re probably too young to remember those clunky metal speakers we put in the car window.
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I missed out on drive in theaters but would love to see them make a comeback! Maybe someone enterprising will start one up here. 🙂
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Definitely miss going to the pictures as my mum would call them. The problem is for kids like my son the ability to go to see a movie was an effort. A fine balance between the movie experience and the anxiety that goes with sitting in a potentially busy room with strangers. This pesky pandemic has completely skewed that balance now. The movie experience just can outweighs the anxiety. Going to be a long time before this changes sadly.
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You’re right, it’s going to be a long while before things feel even a little bit settled again. We have a local theater (not the big national chain one) that started running a sensory friendly show on Saturday mornings. I think they played the movies at a lower volume and didn’t make the theater completely dark.
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I assumed everyone would mention the movie (loved it), so I didn’t!
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So did I! Especially once I couldn’t make my brain shift onto something else. 😉
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I actually didn’t think of Dirty Dancing before you mentioned it. Thanks for the chuckle! And I love that movie!
On the topic of theatres, I wouldn’t like to see them go out of business not for what they offer but for what they represent–a reason to get out of the house. If you don’t dance, don’t drink, and don’t like late suppers and there’s nothing else going on, as there mostly isn’t in a small town, what else is there to do?
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So very true. And that was one of the easiest early dating sites there was. It’s ridiculously expensive now but when I was a teen that was a big time Friday night treat – first step roller skating rink but it was big time if someone asked you to go to the movies. 😆 Prior to covid the kids had just started to go to movies in groups and it was a social activity for them to enjoy together.
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Ha! Yeah, what happened to roller rinks, anyway?
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We have one in our little town. The kids have gone to a couple of birthday parties. No idea if they’re gonna make it through the pandemic.
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Wow. I hope they do. I haven’t seen a roller rink in more than 30 years. What has come back due to the pandemic is drive-ins. I used to love those!
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I always enjoyed going to the movies. Something about the experience of the big screen was alluring. I didn’t know about all the big business behind the scenes. Now that I do, I wish they’d toppled sooner. Sounds like pure greed.
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It does, doesn’t it? The circumstances are horrific, but I do like seeing things being forced into being more inclusive. I guess that’s a silver lining to covid.
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We have to look hard sometimes but those silver linings to covid are out there
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While I’ve been able to enjoy movies via streaming during the pandemic, I do miss the occasional visit to the movie theater. It’s the difference between sitting in your favorite coffee shop with a delicious chai latte vs. sitting at the kitchen table with a latte wanna be. Atmosphere and ambiance can make the experience better. That being said, I think movie theaters will have to change their business model going forward if they want to make up their current losses and garner new customers in the future.
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You’re absolutely right. Movie theaters are much like coffee shops to me. I love my own coffee — prefer it, actually — but sometimes circumstances combine to make it the perfect time to kill an hour in a coffee shop but now it’s not a choice. Everyone’s adjusting, I suppose.
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Excellent use of the prompt, Laura. When you have a snarky distribution network that thumbs its collective nose at the end-user, there is some justice in seeing them sweat. I stopped going to live movie theaters after medical treatments took out my immune system. Until recently, first-run movies were not available to me. Since the theater conglomerates blocked them. I have learned to go to different sources and expect never to set foot in a live venue again. Will I miss the high ticket price and ten-dollar popcorn? I don’t think so.
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Exactly. Some of these are amazing on the big screen – I bet Mulan would have been – but I swear the popcorn is the best part of it. It may have taken them a while but I’m glad they’re starting to find ways to release first-run movies from home now.
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Me too.
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Laura, now my wife would read this and say, like her, you have a fondness of looking at Patrick Swayze. Ironically, I watched “Ghost” again a few days ago and was inspired to write a post about movie songs, beginning with “Unchained Melody” featured in “Ghost.” One of the commenters added “I had the time of my life” from “Dirty Dancing.” I had just got the song out of my head and opened your post. By the way that movie was filmed at Lake Lure in NC where we vacation some.
As for the movie theaters, I did see where struggling drive-ins are doing well during the pandemic. Keith
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Oh boy, “I had the time of my life” is one of those that sticks for days. Apologies for putting it back in your head. If it’s any consolations now that you’ve pointed it out it’s rolling around mine. 😆 I wish we had a drive-in near where we live. I’ve never been to one and that would be a wonderful way to have that experience of seeing a movie together.
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Laura, I think the nearest drive in to me is forty five miles away. By the way, my wife and I like to watch the Kelly Clarkson show on occasion. She has this interview bit, where she pulls up in an old vintage car in a drive-in parking lot and interviews someone who pulled up in another vintage car facing the opposite direction. The cars are two-tone and the setting lends itself to good conversation, as if you saw a friend in traffic and pulled into a parking lot to talk. It is cool. Keith
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A lot of people’s lives and businesses are going to look different after this covid pandemic is over. Probably more than any of us suspect. It is going to accelerate a lot of changes. More things are going to take a long time coming back or landing at the new normal. I am just wondering how messy the new normal is going to be for the vaccine. There are many people from top to bottom that do not believe or do not see vaccination as the top issue. If it slows vaccination down and we go into the next virus season without sufficient immunity we are going to continue to have serious problems. And things will stay messy. We will be ‘baby’ and we all will be in the corner. Fingers crossed and margaritas on stand-by.
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An excellent analogy. My dad’s facility received notice of vaccine supply and I was so relieved when he said he’d be scheduling his unless he heard any big objections from us (his kids). You’re right, so much is on the line and then everything after develops from people getting the vaccine. When I think about the smallpox rollout I cannot believe how much trouble this seems to be.
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Worse we cannot be sure the national and state governments will join in. There are so many that refused masks at the government and personal level. It might just be pollyanna optimistic to think it is going to happen at all of those levels too. Keep those margaritas on standby.
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When your business model depends on controlling someone else’s business model, you have a problem.
Happy New Year, Laura. I hope you get to a theater in 2021.
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Thanks, Dan. The irony is I haven’t even gone to the movies that often in the last few years – maybe once or twice a year? Maybe?? But I do miss having the option. Here’s hoping you get back something you’ve lost in the lockdown, too.
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I do hope that the movie theaters will survive covid.
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Me too.
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👍👍👍
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Losing movies in theatres is one thing, Laura. Losing Broadway and live theatre is much worse to me. I don’t want to only have screens for the rest of my life.
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Can you even imagine?? I’m afraid to hear how they’re faring. We talk about when we might – ever – be able to take the kids to New York and I just can’t imagine that without shows on Broadway.
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