Is it necessary to trust someone you like? (friends, acquaintances or co-workers with whom you have no familial ties)
I’ve been twisting around in circles trying to answer this one but for me I think it only works with acquaintances. I don’t have to trust someone to make small talk. There are plenty of people with a fantastic sense of humor who keep me in stitches but I don’t trust them with things important to me. For co-workers and friends? Frankly, I have to trust them to like them.
Do you hold grudges? What do you do when someone really irritates you?
Short answer: not really, not anymore. In my younger years I could hold onto a slight like I was medaling in the Ill Will Olympics. These days I won’t hold onto the grudge but I don’t forget what I’ve learned about people either.
What’s the most sensible thing you’ve heard someone say?
Healthcare is a human right.
Is crying a sign of weakness or strength in adults?
Strength.
What small things were you grateful for this week?
Snuggly kitties, duck boots for a rainy day, and the energy to cook a good dinner last night.
Sparks from a Combustible Mind hosts Share Your World.
Thanks, Laura for Sharing Your World! The sensible words are more than sensible, they’re (ought to be anyway) something that ought to be TRUE! Great answers to all the questions though! Thanks again!
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Thanks, Melanie. It never ceases to astound me that those sensible words are actually a debate to some people.
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Definitely a strength.
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Agreed.
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I think trust is critical to a friendship – but not necessarily to enjoying someone’s company in a social situation. Grudges take far too much energy for me to entertain them these years. Although I do still resist buying certain brands of things because their commercials have offended me in one way or another. Is that a grudge?
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I absolutely don’t think that’s a grudge, more like using the power of a dollar to support those you choose. I can probably count on one hand the number of times I’ve filled up at Exxon since that oil spill. Not a grudge, just a responsible consumer.
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Laura, thanks for sharing pieces of you with these Q&As. I find myself nodding yes to what you answer. That trust one is elusive. People have to earn that trust, but many we socialize with have not yet passed muster or done something to cause doubt. My wife is the best of listeners, so she has a lot of folks that will bend her ear. Yet, she would rather they talk as she does not want to reveal too much to them, as she knows she will be talked about to others. Keith
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That’s exactly the point I try to make with my daughter. Gossip is all fun and games until they’re talking about you.
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Laura, you just reminded me of a true story. My boss and a colleague were having dinner with a new US division president and another key person. The new person loved to gossip about people and when the other person went to the rest room, she talked about him. My colleague said “I was scared to go to the bathroom, so as not to get talked about.” Keith
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Good answers, Laura, especially the one on sensible thoughts.
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Thanks, Dan. I like that one a lot too.
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Agree with your answers Laura.
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Have a great day, Sadje!
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Thanks a lot
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