1. I was planning to roll right in on how we’re almost through February but I’m jammed up with the title.
2. Number forty-six?? That’s a lot of Friday ramblings.
3. If I printed all those out and laid them end to end…well, I don’t know how far they’d stretch but it’d be something to see.
4. Anyway, here we are at the end of February. So far 2021 has a distinctly 2020 feel.
5. Days that last forever in weeks that fly by or weeks that stretch on and on inside months gone in a flash. It’s disorienting.
6. 2020 doesn’t have a monopoly on fakeouts.
7. I tried a few more recipes this week.
8. Hey, did you know I actually have a favorite recipes page on the blog? One of these days I’ll have to track down all the stuff I’ve shared and add the links there, too.
9. I’ve been pretty loyal to Pioneer Woman salsa over the years. I have to make mine in the Vitamix since I broke my food processor so it’s more saucy than chunky now but still. Yum.
10. This week I was craving chunky, though, so I gave this recipe from Divas Can Cook a try. It’s quick, easy, and delicious with more of a fresh California salsa vibe. So good.
11. BrightSide says chips and salsa is a healthier snack so we’ll put this in the “good choices” column.
12. I’ve been trying to clean up our diet so we also have seafood once a week. This week that meant tilapia.
13. Tilapia is a non-fishy fish so it’s an easy sell with one of the kiddos. The other one won’t come within ten feet of anything from the ocean but whatever, chicken heats up just fine so we slap that on a plate for her and call it a day.
14. This week’s experiment was Baked Tilapia from the website Rasa Malaysia. I’ve found some terrific Chinese food recipes on there but we’ll save those for another time.
15. Tilapia is bland so fresh garlic and cayenne pepper gives this great flavor while lemon juice gets rid of any “muddy” smell.
16. Plus it’s topped with parmesan cheese before baking so YUM. Highly recommend.
17. I say we have seafood once a week like it’s that easy but the truth is T-man only loves salmon and tilapia. Period.
18. Shrimp’s a hard no. Anything with a fishy taste is also off the table. But hey, I’ll work with what I’ve got.
19. Sometimes that means working around a whole bunch of things. I like to joke that I’m not a short order cook but this week the plates sure looked like it.
20. Wednesday’s dinner was that baked tilapia, caramelized Brussels sprouts, and glazed baby carrots. I eat all three of those and they were fantastic.
21. Bear would vomit over the fish so she got chicken, Brussels sprouts, and carrots.
22. BrightSide hates carrots so he had tilapia, Brussels sprouts, and some leftover air fryer potatoes.
23. T-man is “not a fan” (his polite way of saying YUCK) of the Brussels sprouts so he had tilapia, carrots, and the rest of those leftover potatoes.
24. Ridiculous, right? Except in the end everyone had a well balanced meal and we cleaned out a container of leftovers to boot. Win/win.
25. Sometimes dinner is what you make it, I guess.
26. Remember last spring and summer when everybody was learning to make bread? No, that doesn’t have a point, it just jumped into my head.
27. Though it does make me think I’ve got three over-ripe bananas hidden in my fridge in the hopes I’ll make banana bread.
28. Every time I open the door they taunt me with their darkening peels. Look at us, Laura. Imagine how great banana bread would have been this morning IF YOU’D JUST MADE IT YESTERDAY.
29. And even though I yell at myself like this several times a day it’s entirely possible I’ll end up throwing out those damn bananas in the end.
30. I’m trying to cut myself some pandemic slack here but still…it hurts my heart to throw out food.
31. Those lessons we learned in childhood stick.
32. Hey, how many of you grew up on those frozen fish sticks? I used to dunk mine in gobs of tartar sauce. They were delicious!
33. I fed them to my kiddos when they were younger and they recently revealed – and this is a direct quote – “They were disgusting, mom.”
34. What?? How do you not like crunchy sticks you can dip in – wait for it – ketchup? That’s right, my kids dipped them in ketchup which I’D LIKE TO POINT OUT may have had a great deal to do with why they remember them as disgusting. But baggage.
35. You see, BrightSide has this thing with mayo and mustard. It’s this whole long complicated story about allergies and eggs when he was born but basically the guy never used condiments growing up and can’t stand them to this day.
36. Except ketchup and A1, obviously.
37. Anyway, it seems we may have inadvertently passed along this bit of baggage to the kids. Since he despises those ingredients I never made anything with them so our kids never learned to eat them and so the anti-condiment attitude gets passed down a generation.
38. Hey, everyone needs something to tell their therapist during a midlife crisis, right? “My parents withheld mayo!” seems as good a complaint as any.
39. That fish stick thing, though. They seem genuinely traumatized by those.
40. I don’t know what to say, man. Mrs. Paul’s and the Gorton’s fisherman seemed happy to help a flustered mama out at dinnertime. My bad.
I bet we have fishsticks twice a year, just far enough apart to always have to buy a new bottle of tartar sauce. And we have them with macaroni and cheese and peas because that is childhood comfort.
My girls eat sushi like mad, and they love tuna. They do not otherwise eat fish. I have cooked fish their entire lives, lots of salmon, tilapia, cod, and rainbow trout, but they HATE it and on fish night, they eat canned ravioli (HORK!) or boxed mac n cheese or ramen and they complain about the smell of fish. Meanwhile, The Mister and I are salivating “It’s fish night, Baby!” Peel and eat shrimp on a Saturday night? Lazy bliss.
I almost always have to make two veggies for every meat meal, because one, Moo and I don’t eat a lot of meat and we deserve satisfaction, and two, because she doesn’t like this and he doesn’t like that. It’s hashtag, mom life.
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Well, now you’re just making me feel old. :::shifts in chair and shakes cane in air::: Kids these days! When I was a child, we had to eat what was on our plates! There was none of this coddling! Hmph. By gawd, it didn’t matter if you didn’t it, you ate it! (orrrrrrrrrrr…. you got really good at spitting things into a napkin, dropping it on the floor, hiding things under the knife you had strategically placed on the plate rim or…)
Oh gosh. The memories you stirred up! (Pun intended.)
I LOVE those fish sticks! Still! What is wrong with your kids? I just had a plate of those a few days ago. And because I don’t have tartar sauce on hand, I do ketchup, just like we learned in grade school. Disgusting? I’ll tell ’em disgusting: Thinking the bowl of mashed turnips is full of mashed potatoes, putting a BIG helping on your plate (and therefore invoking the “now you have to eat it” rule), slathering it in gravy because: potatoes. Now that, Laura’s children, is disgusting. 🙂
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Oh.my.heavens. That IS the most disgusting thing I’ve ever heard. 🥴 Generally speaking it’s a “this is dinner” environment around here. I’ll do seafood after we’ve had a chicken night so there’s leftover in the fridge for my daughter. I think I bend on that because of my own food issues – I grew up in a “you’ll sit there until you clean your plate” family and that was a problem. What cracks me up is even in avoiding my own food trauma I’m sure I’m inflicting something else. 😆
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Had to look that fish up. Never heard of it and assumed it was a remote exotic, warm water thing. But no apparently Yorkshire has a fish farm that does them. You live and learn.
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It’s a simple one. We have a local seafood counter I like but I’ll keep a bag of individually frozen tilapia filets on hand so I can toss a few in the fridge to thaw overnight when I feel like it. Easy peasy.
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Laura, as parents of former finicky eaters, this one struck chord.
25. Sometimes dinner is what you make it, I guess.
Thank goodness they aged out of it. A friend of my youngest son made his parents pull their hair out as he would only eat PB&J sandwiches. They would go to a restaurant with a PB&J sandwich for him in a baggie.
There is a very humorous video of a woman singing about a Christmas dinner that had to be all things – vegan, vegetarians, salt free, etc. – for her extended family.
Keith
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It’s challenging at times, that’s for sure. Mine are old enough now that I’m starting to imagine what it will be like to cook once they’re out of the house…so many more options but I’ll have to scale down the amount. It’s a strange thought.
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Laura, once you are empty nesters, the leftovers will last you for a few more meals. My wife will usually stop after one leftover meal, but I will nurse something until it is gone. When you open up breakfast to all foods, anything is game – leftover mac-n-cheese, shepherd’s pie, etc. Keith
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you have great recipes and your adaptations to feed the pack are brilliant. you do what you have to do to get it done. I used to love anything fried dipped in anything.
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Oh my word isn’t THAT the truth. Mmm.
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I save your Friday posts for recipes
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That makes me so happy, Sadje! Hope you’ve found some favorites too.
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I am planning to try a few of them when I can have some chicken
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