High bars, low bars…some say how successful you feel depends on where you set your goal line.
I’m not sure how I feel about this philosophy. I mean, in some instances it makes sense. Going into a Saturday hoping to have a good day may seem like setting a low bar to some, but if setting the bar low means you find pleasure in a cup of coffee and walking the dog then who am I to argue?
Then again, aiming to graduate college with whatever GPA constitutes “passing” strikes me as a bar set far too low. Little to aim for, no incentive to challenge yourself – I think some folks sell themselves short when they’re cruising on Ds and keep on rolling.
So where’s the happy medium? (And you can’t say average.)
My kids aim high. In school, in sports, in more ways than I probably know, T-man and Bear want to achieve. I’m trying to help them find balance, find a way to live peacefully even when life doesn’t hit those high notes. It’s a work in progress. I could say the same for me.
Linda’s stream of consciousness prompt this week is “high/low.”
I think it depends a lot on personality. I like to set goals to bigger things in steps, keeping things achievable, and moving forward.
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Achievable is key for me. If the goal is too looming I get discouraged before I see real progress.
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I believe it’s good to aim high so that even if we miss the mark we would fall too far.
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