I find myself so entirely overwhelmed by the day to day news that I’m having a hard time zeroing in. Sometimes when I’m writing a topic will jump out at me, clear as day, but right now? Right now it seems like everything’s important so I’m giving in to a somewhat scattershot post. So be it.
‘Rona times had some random perks — an overdue pause in a nonstop schedule, fur baby bonding, a marked improvement in my cooking skills even. But after making it through a year of news filled with super-spreader events, hospitalization stats, and death rates it never occurred to me a return to quote/unquote normal would mean a return to gun violence headlines. It should have, but it didn’t. Over 200 mass shootings have occurred so far in 2021 and I just can’t process how after a year of relatively NO mass shootings how so many people are willing to shrug and meh this stuff back into the mainstream.
I’m not sure people are adequately concerned about the political shenanigans going on. I know we’re all exhausted from four years on the Tilt-a-Whirl, Biden’s administration is valiantly trying to stem covid transmission, and we’re still neck deep in “it’s a hoax!” nonsense BUT THERE IS SOME BAD SHIT GOING DOWN. As of March 24 lawmakers introduced 361 bills with restrictive voting provisions in 47 states. Five of those bills have already been signed into law while at least 55 bills in 24 states are moving through their legislatures.¹ And that’s not even dealing with states taking away the final say on election results and giving it to conservative run houses to decide.
Also Roe v. Wade, people, Roe v. Wade. How are more people not panicking about the relentless chipping away at women’s healthcare rights in America? It’s past time we normalized body ownership. I have ownership of my own body, nobody else, and any decisions made regarding this body are between my healthcare provider and me. Period. Surgical procedures, medical treatments, even the status of my uterus are absolutely not up for discussion with the general public or my government. PERIOD.
Can we talk about those anti-choice arguments? Because some of them don’t actually seem all that “pro life” to me. So she’s not old enough/experienced enough/responsible enough to decide whether to carry a pregnancy to term but is old enough/experienced enough/responsible enough enough to raise a child. A fertilized egg is protected life but the egg never made it out of the fallopian tube so now she has to risk dying from internal bleeding. And you’re really okay with telling a pregnant rape or incest victim they’re required to carry a baby to term? Really??
Texas just signed into law a ban on abortions after a fetal heartbeat is detected which, for the unfamiliar among us, can be two weeks after you miss your period. TWO WEEKS. Catch a college student during finals and they might not even notice. You know what I haven’t seen making it’s way through Texas state legislature? Bills requiring men who impregnate women to begin financially supporting the six week fetus, a move to sterilize men who impregnate unwilling partners, healthcare options for said fetus, or housing/food allowance for a fetus these legislators claim is so precious.
Gotta say, a state that passes a fetal heartbeat law arguing against pre-birth “murder” the same day the government executes a man has some balls.
Plus there’s that New York City special grand jury convened for the interminably long investigation into financial finagling by the Trump Organization, the former president, and his family. Wah wah waaaaaahhhhhhh.
Are you catching any of the daily briefings on CSPAN? Okay, full disclosure, I’m not a CSPAN geek — not that there’s anything wrong with that — I’m catching clips on twitter. But Jen Psaki is owning that room and I’m here for it. Oh, also kind of awesome that Principal Deputy Press Secretary Karine Jean-Pierre made history yesterday as the second Black woman as well as the first openly gay woman to brief from the White House podium. Get it!
And that’s it, my brain shut off as quickly as it opened up. Weird stuff these days. Add your thoughts in the comments or share some of the news that’s keeping you up at night. 💛
1 – Waldman, Michael, et al. “State Voting Bills Tracker 2021.” Brennan Center for Justice, 25 May 2021, http://www.brennancenter.org/our-work/research-reports/state-voting-bills-tracker-2021.
My hat is off to you for even looking around and noticing. SOMEONE has to do it of course, when we’re all not looking, look at the sh*t that piles up and gets snuck past us. That whole gun mess makes me suicidal. I wonder why nobody ever tries to take out a grocery store where I’m shopping. I’m fronting the gunman/men if it ever happens. It’s insane.
If some dusty old fart with gonads instead of ovaries ever tried to tell me I ‘couldn’t’ do this or that with my personal being, I’d end up being arrested for pulling his gonads off and using them as gruesome ear jewelry. Those with balls can never understand what those of us with ovaries go through, any more than we can understand their unique problems.
I don’t watch nor do I pay attention simply because I get so angry and there’s nothing at all I can actively do to change any of it. I can vote (well right now I can, I bet Utah is forefront in some of those woman bashing and loss of rights dipwad laws). The feeling of impotence is too great though and then I want to take that whole bottle of Xanax washed down with that bottle of wine I’ve got stashed in the back of the refrigerator.
This world is not worth living in when one looks at the big picture. The criminals and idiots have taken over. Thank you though for reporting the news. The more you know, hmm?
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Sometimes the more you know the more you act on it…sometimes self care means stepping back and taking a break because DAMMIT why do things suck so bad. It’s a powerful force, Melanie, and I totally get it.
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I grow more frustrated with our society every day. While I longed to become an ostrich and ignore the news during Trump’s term, but could not, just could not because I had to know what idiotic thing he said/did today – now I just cannot watch the news because, OMG! How can people live with what’s going on? How can people ignore what’s going on? How can people be okay with what’s going on? How can people perpetrate what’s going on? And how can we manage to elect people like Marjorie Taylor Greene, and think it’s okay that we did that? 200 mass shootings in 2021! January 6 never happened! Trump won! Audit an election in Arizona 6 months later! I do not understand. I weep. I scream. I am glad I am not young because the future does not look bright to me.
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This is a big time struggle for me. I look at my kiddos and think what kind of world am I sending you out into? We live in a godawful openly racist county and they hate it here but I don’t know how much better they’ll find it elsewhere when so much is broken in America. My friend’s trans kid wonders if they should even stay in the country. It’s beyond distressing.
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Way beyond.
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It’s staggering that so many can see the world so differently to how we do.
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I took a lot from Keith’s comment below. I used to think I hated Republicans but it turns out what I actually hate is a party working to keep others in their place, ignoring the needs of their constituents, pushing lies to hold onto power and kowtow to the money that keeps them there. Many in the GOP were a quieter version of this. Trump’s party is just louder about it.
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Laura, while it is hard to ignore some of the shenanigans going on, please take some solace in knowing a lot of these laws will be ruled unconstitutional. I remember a state legislator in NC rip me a new one when I told him the Voter ID bill he drafted was Jim-Crow like and unconstitutional. After he ripped me a new one a second time, I told him I was a 54 white southern man and former Republican and “you and I both know what this bill is all about.” It was later ruled unconstitutional as were several gerrymandering laws.
What saddens this independent voter is all of the effort going to use the former president’s planned and staged election fraud claims which were highly predictable and still unprovable (he has won one court case out of over 60 cases). While I knew the former president would do this, it concerns and embarrasses me sycophants in my former party would forget their oaths and support the former president’s deceitful and seditious behavior. Trying to act like the Wizard of Oz and say January 6 and events leading up to it did not happen they way they did is malfeasance in my mind.
So, we must speak to the truth and tell politicians it matters. And, for my Republican friends who feel I am all wet, ask them does it worry them to not know what they will have to defend next week, the week after, next month and the month after….There is not enough white paint to cover the claimed fake news which will be shouted in defense. What probably concerns me the most is all of the truth tellers (senators, representatives, inspectors general, diplomats, staff, etc.) who were threatened, denigrated and ousted after they raised concerns over the former president’s actions.
Laura, I am sorry for the diatribe. I can disagree on policy with both Dems and Reps, but it frustrates me to see what was the Republican Party be so adrift and value untruthfulness and conspiracy parroting as they have done. Keith
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I’m grateful for your voice, Keith, both here and out in the world. I think our best chance at reforming a party that’s slid off the tracks is someone like you who believes in core values that might spark some memory of what the GOP used to be. I’m most likely written off in those circles as a left-wing-socialist-nut so I don’t feel like I’ve very effective at changing minds. Now we just need an uprising of conservatives who want to take back their power from the Trump party.
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Thanks Laura. Those who dismiss the arguments of people with labels are not exercising civil discourse. They are told to ignore people who can be labeled which is a sad state of affairs, in and of itself. Being a former Republican does not gain me much clout, but it at least permits me to maybe get heard. The question I want an answer to is why would some truth telling Republicans risk so much, knowing they will be threatened and vilified, yet they told the truth anyway? That is courage, a term that is not top of mind to define the former president. Keith
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The US will never be rid of gun violence. People care more about poking their faces into others’ reproductive choices than stopping actual murders.
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That one broke my heart. It’s been scary for decades but when things didn’t change after Sandy Hook I couldn’t make sense of it. Somehow I’d stopped being surprised that high school students were seen as expendable but if even the massacre of 6- and 7-year-olds didn’t shift the narrative…it was soul crushing.
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Yes the whirl is still very tilted. And it is not pretty. Of this I am sure.
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100% agree.
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very scary goings on. not time to let down our guard just yet
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I think too many times people have seen some kind of progress — because, let’s face it, I seriously exhaled when Biden was sworn in — and stepped back. Decided things had changed. The work is never-ending and pretty exhausting.
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At least we had a moment to catch our breath- now, we have to be vigilant and active again
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This is very disturbing.
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So much is disturbing. But I think dropping all this on here let me sleep last night so there’s that.
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I can understand.
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Exactly what you are talking about. It’s a crazy world out there.
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Day after day after day.
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