They’ll need much more than just the ABCs.
” ‘Be Nice’ is one of the most common phrases we say to our kids, especially our young ones…Girls, especially, are given a heavy dose of its close cousin: ‘be sweet.’ Now, what does this mean? It usually means this
‘stuff your feelings, swallow them hard and just smile even though you want to scream.’ “
Instead of Teaching Your Kids To “Be Nice,” Teach Them This… – Dr. Shefali