Valentine’s Day is a tricky holiday. I could go on about creating a holiday to profit off love and all that, it’s what I would have raged about in my thirties. I still don’t love the corporate marketing angle but the thing is I don’t love the über focus on romantic love.
Disclaimer: I do indeed love my husband until the ends of the earth. He’s a far better man than I deserve — just kidding, it’s just a saying, I know I deserve to be loved by a wonderful human being — and he deserves a day to hear that. Except we tend to say that stuff year round so February 14th is just a good excuse for chocolates.
Anyway.
I wish Valentines Day was universally more celebrated as a general love holiday. Less “do you have someone to love/date/marry/have children with/grow old with/loovvvvveeeeeeeeeeeee” and more how are you blessed by love in your life. Less “poor soul doesn’t have a date on Valentine’s Day” and more who’s got your back at the drop of a hat.
Friends, family, neighbors, teachers, coworkers, that person who lives with their heart wide open and their soul front facing…there are so many ways to give and receive love, all of which make the world a much better place.
I’d like more of that, please.
Linda hosts Stream of Consciousness Saturday. This week’s prompt is “love.” Use it any way you’d like. Have fun, and happy Valentine’s Day!

It’s odd, Valentine’s Day never existed when I was at school, or was I that unpopular 🤣🤣🤣
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Sir! 😂 I think Valentine’s Day used to be A LOT more relaxed at school than it is these days…
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I have a similar disdain for Valentine’s Day and find the whole idea distasteful. My husband and I have been together since 1971 (married since 1973) and always ignored it. We prefer to celebrate occasions that mean something personal, when it suits us, not when the retail industry dictates. And yes, love should be expressed year-round. 💖
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I absolutely agree. I’m happy for people who find joy in going out on this special day but I like days that are meaningful to us. Married since 1973 is fabulous!
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When I was in elementary school, Valentine’s Day was the day to tell your friends you cared about them, with cheesy heart cards and little candy hearts with nice sayings on them. I’d like it to be treated as that kind of day now – more of a day to tell people you care for them in one way or another, less emphasis on “romantic love” – whatever that might mean to different people.
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Oh my, the classroom exchange of valentines! That was something, wasn’t it? I do love that Galentines Day has gained steam but seeing it celebrated more universally, for all sorts of love, would be wonderful.
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Happy Valentine’s Day, Laura.
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Thanks, John. Happy Valentine’s Day to you too!
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😊
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I’m with you on this –
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Love in all its forms can be so healing.
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