The packing is the worst of it.
When we’re getting ready to travel – when my back’s up against the wall and I realize in two days I am literally leaving my home – my brain does this tiny kaboom thing. I break into a cold sweat because there’s no more time to waste. I have to make a decision about shoes.
Not just shoes (although how many/how heavy my shoes are is a constant source of stress) but it’s also the clothes. Do I need a sweatshirt? A jacket? A pair of jeans? Can I get away with a dressy outfit or do I need an actual dress? And if I pack a dress that leads us back around to shoes and a shrug and whether or not an evening purse is required.
I.will.not.lie. THIS is why women lose their damn minds packing to leave town. By the time I’ve worked my way through all the necessities and included a couple of backups the question of “gee, should I throw in workout clothes and sneakers” is almost laughable because who’s got the room or back strength to shove any more stuff in that backpack??
Add in the fact that I’ve got to throw together some kind of packing list for the kids and poof! there goes the brain again. Things are slightly better now that I don’t feel the need to check behind them – if they forgot it, they forgot it. We’ll figure it out on the fly and that’s that.
The packing is the worst of it. Prioritizing, picking, choosing, sorting, rolling, squishing…all a very necessary part of travel, I admit, but once you’re past it then you get the fun.
So why do bags sit in our room for weeks after we return from a trip? Is this to say unpacking is also the worst of it? Or am I just a whiny child when it comes to suitcases? Guess we’ll never know.
Linda hosts Stream of Consciousness Saturday. This week’s prompt is “(un)pack.” Use “pack” or its opposite in your post. Have fun!
super intersting!
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Now that there are no kids here, I can use the spare bed for the open suitcase and start packing a day or two before the trip, but you can only pack so far ahead, because you might need what you packed before you leave.
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I often think about how helpful a spare bedroom would be…too bad we’ve gotta lose a kid to gain one! 😆
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Right. It’s like a consolation prize?
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True. I think the consolation prizes make you look at the bright side. Plus (and I’m gauging this at 13 and 15 yrs old) by 18 I’m thinking we’ll be ready for them to — ahem — spread their wings. 😆
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It’s a natural thing. Still, it took a couple years for me to think of my daughter’s old bedroom as the “spare room.”
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I leave mine too late. Complete chaos. Complete stress. I have a friend who has a clothes set just for holidays. It’s always packed and in the bag. No stress.
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Ooh, THERE’S a thought. A permanently packed bag…that would definitely be a stress reliever.
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This is great. I’ve seen this mad dance in action.
I’m gonna take a wild guess at the stress level (near zero) and the time required (under an hour) for Brighhtside to pack – amiright?
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OH MY GOSH, DAN, YOU ARE *ABSOLUTELY* RIGHT. He gets dragged into my crazy when it’s a family trip but when he’s headed somewhere for business? He’ll wait ’til the MORNING OF to announce “I’m gonna go throw some stuff in a bag.” It’s insane.
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Hahaha – when I was traveling for business, my wife would ask, the night before my drive\train\flight “are you going to pack?” I would pack in about 15 minutes and she would agree that it was insane.
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I’m going through that now – but I only have me to worry about, so that’s easier. Except for what I need to take for Shasta to the friends who offered to take her. And what to put in a note for the friend who’ll check on the cats. Part of it is easy – I’m taking my lighter weight jeggings and wearing a pair of the heavier weight – because jeans are my go-to. It’s the tops – what weight, etc. I’’m meeting a friend of many many years in Galveston, a kind of central southern location that’s warmer than our home states. And trying to keep to a smaller suitcase and a carry-on, because the next size up is a hard case and heavier. In the end, it’ll all work out.
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True that. I’m a big jeans fan. That’s why summertime throws me off so much — it gets so freaking hot in NC that I can’t even begin to imagine melting in a pair of jeans!
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Packing for a day or two away is never much of a bother, but packing for 7-10 days at the beach is another story. I heavily contemplate becoming a day drinker and I ask Hubby to please murder the children two or three times each. For what it’s worth, I have a list. The problem seems to be that I also have teenagers.
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You’re absolutely right, the weekend getaways aren’t a problem, it’s weeklong trips that do it. It gets worse if we go someplace without a washer/dryer. Not that I choose to do laundry on vacation but it does take the pressure off some.
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I hear ‘ya. The thought of packing for a vacation makes me angsty. What to take, how to pack it, will it get lost in transit? What a topic for a Saturday morning.
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So many moving pieces, so many ways to freak myself out over a suitcase. 😆
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I don’t struggle to pack for myself, Laura, but the kids is another matter altogether. Last time I let Michael pack for himself, he forgot to pack underpants and socks so now I do their packing myself.
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We’ve done this transition thing here where I packed for them, then I gave them a list for them to pack but checked behind them, and now they’re *supposed* to be independent. My daughter has the opposite problem — I have to go through her stuff to weed out all her overpacking.
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I think girls are different that way. My sons would only take a swimming costume if left unsupervised.
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I think you’re right. What’s up with our obsession over having enough options??
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Unpacking is easy for me. But packing…… I procrastinate till the 11th hour.
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Procrastinating for me is packing the night before. People who pack the morning of a trip flummox me!
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I do that if it’s a road trip,, that is pack in the morning! 😛
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After years and years of these symptoms, I finally found a solution. I made a list and each time I travel, I just follow my list !
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I had a list — took me a while to perfect — and then I managed to lose it in the move. Sheesh!
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